Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Our Guy

This is our buddy... This is the picture we fell in love with and we knew we just had to have him.
We got him for Drew's birthday 3 years ago, and the day after Drew's birthday last week we had to say goodbye to him.
Caesar was there from the start of our little family. We had only been married 2 months before we got him. He went through the good and the bad with us. Happy to be part of the ride.
It was so hard to make the decision to put him down. He got bloat, that's where their stomach twists. It was worse to see him so sick. As many of you know Caesar had a pretty sensitive stomach, and the vet told us even with surgery, he would have even more problems and be more uncomfortable. We couldn't put him through that.
So we had to let him go. I hated it, I am not sure I have ever cried so hard in all my life. Especially not in such a public place. I was a wreck, Drew was a wreck, but while I was alone with Caesar while the vet was preparing the meds, and Drew was signing the papers, Caesar laid next to me while I sobbed. He picked up his paw and put it on my shoulder. I was a goner. I wailed and told him over and over what a good boy he was, and how much he meant to us.
He was probably just happy knowing I wouldn't be making him wear clothes anymore... Ha, he loved it.
We love our fat guy, Big C, Caesar my Naesar, big bear, big bear-o-potomous, big bear with no hair, old Mr. Grey beard, big fat fat fattegan, and will always miss him.
We will miss his snuggles, and we nose in our faces, I'll miss him saving me from moose, and scary dogs at the dog park, I'll miss telling him what a good boy he was for sitting like a gentleman. I'll miss telling him to leave me alone in the bathroom. I'll miss listening to him toot with every step he takes down the stairs. He ate our couches, shoes, got sick in our house, and I would do it all over again. To see his excitement he has in his eyes every time we got home. To see him wake from a dead sleep because he heard Drew's truck before anyone. To see him be so enormous and gentle at the same time. Parents loved him because kids could step,fall, tug and pull all over him without him even batting an eye.
I always had this vision of when we got around to having kids I would hire someone to take Caesar's picture of him looking into the crib, because for sure he would be tall enough and curious enough to take sneaky peeks in a crib.
We are so grateful we have been lucky enough to experience his love for three years. It would be a sad life not knowing the love of an animal.
We are so so so grateful to our friends and family who have made this hard time just a little easier. Friends and family who called or text us letting us know they understand that it wasn't just a loss of a dog, but a member of our family. To my siblings, all I had to do was tell one of you what happened and the news spread, so I didn't have to be the one to repeat it. Thank you for checking in on us everyday to see how we are doing. It means the world to us. Thank you to our friends for the treats, presents and the flowers. Thank you for knowing what a huge part of our life our pooches are. We miss you Caes, and always will!

14 comments:

  1. My deepest sympathies on your loss - I know how hard it is to lose a furry child, and that it just plain hurts. Caesar will be watching over you - (My 16 year old cat passed last weekend).

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  2. I'm so sorry Linds, I know how hard it can be, especially if you have to put them down. This last winter my boyfriend and I had to put down his dog since he was very old and very ill. My sympathies are with you, even though I've never met Caesar I can admit I cried on hearing about his death. I hope for sunnier days in your future.

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  3. Oh Lindsay. Beautiful post. It made me cry. Caesar was lucky to be in your home and part of your family where he was loved so much. He will have that same excitement when you guys see him again, HOME at last. :) Love you.

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  4. Oh Linds, I'm sitting her sobbing. I'm so sorry! I really am hurting for you...I hope you are both okay! Hang in there.

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  5. I was a wreck while reading this entire post. absolutely bawling. what a heartbreak. I don't know what we would do if we ever had to put Leah down. I'm so so sorry Linds. He seemed like such an awesome dog! Love you guys so much! hang in there!

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  6. Linds, I am so sorry. I love you so much and I know how hard this must be. Ceaser was such a fun Dog and he will be missed. I love you and want to see you. Let's do something.

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  7. Oh my... I am at work and I cannot stop crying. I had to read that post in about 10 different parts to keep from sobbing.

    I am SO sorry for your loss. I know how much you loved that bear, I cannot imagine losing mine. Just know that you made the right decision, and there was nothing you could have done. Again, I am so heartbroken for your little family. Let us know if we can do anything for you. Navajo Hogan? Our treat.

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  8. Oh Linds I'm so sorry, losing a pet is one of the hardest things. The hardest I've ever cried was when my first dog died. If you need anything, don't hesitate to call :)

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  9. Hi Linds and Andrew! I just read your blog and found out about Caesar. I am so sorry! I know how much you both love him. How is Cleo? I hope she is not to lonely without her big buddy. I hate the awful feeling of losing something that you love so much. We love you guys! Robyn and family

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  10. i'm sorry lindsay, i know he was such a part of your family. what a hard thing to have to go through...

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  11. Awwwww!!! That was a great post, he really was a member of your family. Again, I am so sorry!

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  12. The only thing that made Lizzy stop crying was to tell her that Caesar was with Grandpa Combe. We talked about how that gentle Giant of a man was taking that gentle Giant of a dog on a walk... and both of them so happy. We love the Hogans... Cleo too! (Katie was drawing a picture of Caesar during church... she erased one of his pointy ears and re-drew it with a little bend in it... we love Caesar.)

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  13. What a tender post for a gentle giant. Your words captured your feelings so well, and I know Caesar was and is incredibly loved. My heart continues to go out to you, Drew, and C's trusty pal, Cleo.

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  14. lindsay, i am so not an animal person, but this post was so sweet and i loved reading it. i don't know the feeling of losing an animal, but i know the feeling of losing loved ones and either way, the loss of someone just STINKS!! sending thoughts and hugs your way, i'm sorry! i know you loved that puppy!! :)

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